Another year, another chapter closed. 2024, you were the unexpected rollercoaster I didn’t sign up for but somehow enjoyed (mostly). From heartbreaks to hilariously awkward situations, career wins to existential crises, you’ve kept me on my toes. This year was like an Instagram highlight reel—filled with moments of “What was I thinking?” and “I needed this.” As we wrap up, here are the 10 most memorable lessons I learned, sprinkled with some drama, lots of chai, and a dash of humour.
1. Breakups Are a Growth Spurt in Disguise
Ah, the breakup. We’ve all been there—crying into a pillow, swearing off love forever, and then re-downloading dating apps two weeks later. This year, I had one of those “it’s not you, it’s me” moments, and while it hurt, it also felt like a reset button. I started therapy, reconnected with old hobbies (painting at 3 AM is surprisingly therapeutic), and realized I’m a whole vibe on my own. Pro tip: Healing is better with a playlist full of Taylor Swift.
2. Drama Is Exhausting, Peace Feels Better
Remember that one friend who always had the drama going on? Yep, we don’t talk anymore. After one too many late-night calls about her latest chaos, I decided to hit the ‘Do Not Disturb’ button on unnecessary negativity. Now, my life is less about “Who said what?” and more about “What’s the next series on my watchlist?” (Currently: The Bear).
3. Your Bank Account Reflects Your Priorities
2024 is also the year I discovered my love language is “saving money.” After realizing I’d spent the equivalent of a mini vacation on cheesecakes alone (no regrets, though), I started tracking expenses. Now, I’m that person who checks discounts, meal preps (okay, tries to), and actually has a “fun fund” for spontaneous adventures. And yes, I still treat myself—just smarter.
4. Self-Care Is Not Selfish
One Friday, after a particularly rough week, I cancelled all my plans, ordered pizza, and watched Gossip Girl. No guilt, just bliss. This year, I embraced self-care unapologetically. Whether it’s saying no to events I’m not excited about or spending a Sunday with my family, I learned that taking care of yourself is the ultimate flex.
5. Friends Are the Chosen Family
Shoutout to my best friend who showed up at 11 PM with Momos because I was having a bad day. This year reminded me that good friends are like Wi-Fi—essential, comforting, and there when you need them. From imaginary road trips to late-night karaoke sessions (bad singing included), my friends made this year unforgettable.
6. Fitness Isn’t Just About Aesthetic Goals
You know that gym high everyone talks about? I finally felt it! 2024 was the year I ditched the “I’ll start next Monday” excuse and joined a Zumba class. At first, I looked like a malfunctioning robot, but eventually, I realized it’s not about how you look—it’s about how you feel. I am still getting used to being consistent here not gonna lie but hey! at least took the first step. I do enjoy it btw so maybe I will stick to it in 2025 too? Stick around to know what happens XD
Bonus: I can now run behind my 5-year-old nephew without wheezing like an old engine.
7. Overthinking Solves Absolutely Nothing
Picture this: me, lying in bed at 2 AM, replaying a 5-second awkward interaction from months ago. Yep, overthinking queen right here. But this year, I started journaling to quiet the noise in my head. Fun fact: Half the things I stressed about turned out fine, and the rest? They didn’t even happen.
Life lesson unlocked: breathe, let go, and don’t Google every symptom (yeah, you don’t got cancer!)
8. Gratitude Is the Ultimate Glow-Up
One random day in October, I started writing three things I was grateful for before bed. At first, it was basic stuff like “blueberry cheesecake” and “not missing my alarm,” but soon, it became deeper—like being thankful for a hug from a friend or a kind stranger who held the door or even my top 5 friends who I couldn’t do life without. Turns out, gratitude shifts your vibe faster than a good selfie filter.
9. Failure Is Just a Fancy Word for Learning
2024 was also the year of failing gloriously. From botched recipes (turns out baking soda isn’t the same as baking powder) to a work presentation that had me saying “uh” every two seconds, I had my share of oops moments. But each flop taught me something valuable—mainly, laugh at yourself and try again.
10. Change Is the Only Constant
If 2024 taught me anything, it’s to embrace change like an old friend. Life doesn’t always follow your script, and that’s okay. Adaptability is the real game!
Final Thoughts
2024, you were a handful, but you were mine. As I say goodbye to this chapter, I’m carrying these lessons into 2025—along with a killer playlist, a slightly better budget, and hopefully, plants that survive longer than two weeks. Here’s to another year of growing, laughing, and living our messy, beautiful lives.
What about you? What’s one lesson 2024 taught you? Let me know in the comments—I’m all ears!
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